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    suspenceful reacted to i_love_cars in Buying cars in yo 20's   
    it's all good Jake. 
     
    Please note that when I say "you" as follows, it pertains to generically speaking anyone. It isn't directed at any individual. 
     
    What I'm seeing here is common which is posturing of this attitude like "yeah I'm set, I got it bro. I'm so successful in my early 20's working for somebody else that they give me enough scraps off their plate that I can buy X". No, you aren't set. You've accomplished nothing. You make dogshit as far as real money is concerned, and it isn't enough to ever be independent. I hate seeing kids with a 2 in front of their age who think they've somehow "made it" with their little degree and their little job, or worse - still finishing school and trying to explain to the world that they have all this opportunity and things will be so grand and perfect. Yes, congrats, you've just become like millions of other people running the rat race. Giving people the rundown on how you've stood up a run-of-the-mill modern Western life isn't impressive.
     
    Here's an idea: rather than talking about how little is owed on a car or house, or justifying expenses of cars, all based on some small income and this little box that 99% of 20-somethings fall into - instead talk about how you're going to start a business or invest in some way that will fund your car desires 1000x over down the road. So you have a house? Houses are money pits. They are not investments. Nice to have but quite possibly the WORST thing you can do in your early 20's is to buy a house that YOU pay for. I say YOU because if you rent it and someone else pays the interest and taxes and cash flows your escrow to repair stuff on it, then it's not the worst thing anymore.
     
    Working hard is something to be proud of. Working hard for material things like cars and houses is stupid. Work hard to become smarter about how to have the experiences you as a person want out of life
     
    Storytime:
    I grew up playing soccer with a buddy who I still play with to this day. 20+ years. Really nice, unassuming guy. He was failing physics in high school so he started the physicsforums website as a place for people to answer questions, etc. He took that and ran with it, still went to UWM and got a comp sci degree just to have a fallback (positioning), but he's never worked for anyone beyond the age of 18. The forums took off and now he has the likes of Harvard professors contributing content. He has a 6 figure RESIDUAL income from the traffic and literally spent his entire 20's out of the USA for 9 months out of the year. Every year. all he did was travel the world and he still to this day at the age of 32 does not have to work for anyone and is currently spending summer in Tanzania and surrounding countries. 
     
    THAT is success. It's not about having X number of dollars to buy a house or cars or whatever or being "rich" - it's about having the freedom to pursue what is important to you at your leisure, on your own clock, not having to answer to someone demanding you are 9-5 somewhere 5 days a week or whatever the case may be unless you truly want that structure in your life. He was smart about what he did, rather than just "work hard" to do the "yea i'm gonna go to college and get a job and ride that one out", and now he has infinitely more freedom to do what he wants with his life, not beholden to the whims of banks, employers, or any other form of debtor. 
     
    I do very well for myself but usually all I can ever think about is how I'm going to get my next property in order to get to a point where someday I can say "I will do what I want on my own terms and I do not need this job". I really want to be able to coach soccer again, and I'd love to get enough track time where I can start instructing. I'd love to be able to travel as a software consultant maybe a couple months a year helping companies understand architecture that really want to learn and better themselves, rather than be tied to some elitist investment firm like I am now who favors politics over progress. I'd love to have time to help young entrepreneurs get started, even help bankroll them or fund ideas because I personally know how hard it is to get capital to pursue things like that. But I can't do any of those things right now because I wasn't smart until age 25 when I started getting properties for myself and doing web development outside of my day job because I knew I'd never even have a shot at some semblance of freedom otherwise. 13 years from now, when I'm 45, my goal is to be able to do all those things on my own terms. But I'm ok with that because I've defined the goal, the terms of it, what I want and how I will keep myself sane in the meantime *cough* with my modestly priced 135i *cough*. 
     
    So when I see people just starting out, who have done nothing of any merit or value yet in the world, spouting off about these typical things around cars, houses, student loans, credit cards, whatever, yadda yadda modern Western society "success" criteria - all I can think about is this:
     
    STOP. THINK.
     
    You wanna work hard? Great. In your 20's when you have the time and energy to work that hard, at least put your efforts into working hard where a portion of that counts towards helping yourself in the long run. Whatever you give to an employer is making them 20x what they pay you. They bank on that. You're being utterly robbed. Don't get me wrong, I know the system needs millions of work-a-day rat race chumps who will never go anywhere in life, I get that. But at that point all your eggs are in one basket. There is an untold amount of opportunity available for people who want a less stressful life with more freedom to do the things they want if they are smart about it. Almost anybody with intelligence and skills can do something in addition to their regular job to help build themselves up a buffer and start separating themselves. 
     
    Do something for yourself in order to insulate yourself from corporations and a world that in general doesn't give a damn about you. The sooner you understand that and work towards it, the sooner you can pursue passion around cars or whatever without caring about the financials. 
     
    I know people who can literally write checks for over 100 million dollars. I'm not talking assets - I'm talking liquid cash available on-hand. And you know what? Those people who own big like that are always selling, liquidating, and moving on. That's opportunity for creative, smart people. There's plenty of ways you can be smarter where you "work hard" but you are not "working hard at a career job". and it doesn't even have to be real estate like what I am into. For example, I also am always checking out sites like Quiet Light Brokerage - they broker deals of sales of websites - everything from drop ship businesses to e-commerce to amazon re-sellers to you name it. These are things you can buy small or big, some even potentially grow and flip with some smart moves.
    The bottom line is this: work "hard" but realize you need emphasis on being smart about what you're going hard at, and position yourself to react to the inevitable changes in your life. Nobody cares if you have cash to buy a car right now or how little you owe on your house because honestly that means nothing in the grand scheme of things. It seems big to you at a young age but there is a much broader stroke that everyone should keep in mind and the more money you blow on stupid shit at a young age, the less you are positioning yourself for the future.
     
    again, let's not mix this up and make the mistake of boiling it down to having X number of dollars. Define what you want to do in your life, what you're passionate about, and then determine if you are happy giving that up to work for someone else for mediocre money that may get you a few nice-to-haves like a used BMW or a small house. Realize that every dollar you spend now moves you further away from your goal if you are blowing it on cars or anything like it.
     
    Nobody here needs to agree with me, but in the past 8 years I've met a lot of people who are independently able to pursue what they want in life and they don't need to even talk about the costs of BMWs. I know how they did it, the underlying premise is all the same, and all I'm trying to do here is help add some perspective to people who are smart enough to realize that they have opportunity to not struggle as much. And for any of you to say you aren't struggling is a lie. If you don't believe me when I say that, then that means you don't grasp what I'm saying. Stop trying to justify to the world why you're doing what you're doing right now because of how awesome you think you've set yourself up. The unassuming millionaire in his 1988 Corolla doesn't care because he's going to spend the rest of the day on his boat staring at clouds contemplating the mysteries of the universe, without a care in the world. 
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    suspenceful got a reaction from andyhundley in Buying cars in yo 20's   
    Let's hear it!
    I gave some real insight, doesn't mean I think I'm right or wrong. I'm very happy with my situation. I have a great credit score and only owe 1/3 of what my car is worth. The point of a forum is discussion. I don't mind sharing personal info.
    I know most people think a car isn't something someone should finance at a young age. Others think you shouldn't spend money on modifications if you still owe on it. I know friends who worked hard for a nice car and I know others who owe $30k+ with maxed out credit cards.
    In the end, a car is just supposed to be something that gets you from "point A" to "point B". Sadly, we've all got a disease.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from patsbimmer1 in Buying cars in yo 20's   
    Here is some real life info.
    I bought my 135i when I was 21 (now 23). Was making $12/hr part-time while going to school full-time. Daily drove a shitty 1996 328is with 230k and a boat load of stupid issues. Also had a turbo Miata as a weekend/fun car of 3 years. Both were paid for. I was paying $375 for rent, $100 for gas/food/other, and $50 to insure both cars with liability. Rough expenses of $550/mo if nothing came up. My parents paid my cell phone bill and bought me food or gave me a little money if needed every once in a while. They knew I appreciated it.
    I was sick of driving my crappy E36 and had an idea. My renting lease was almost up and I could move home (free) after living on campus for 3 years. I could either continue paying rent or buy a nicer/more reliable car and commute. As you can see, I chose to sell both of my cars and trade my rent expense for a car loan expense. Obviously this was after a lot of thinking and research.
    I found a fully loaded 6-speed 2008 135i that perfectly fit my requirements. It had 82k miles and I knew it might need maintenance (somewhat expensive). I wanted to build credit so I decided to go for it. Put $5k down on a $18k loan at 2.85% interest. Monthy payment of $232 and pay $70/mo for full coverage insurance. The car is lumped into my parents auto insurance plan wih 3 other vehicles through Allstate. I have a clean driving record and so do they.
    Fast forward to now, I owe $7k on the car. The only other debt I have is school loans. I have 1 credit card that I've paid in full every month. I spent about $4k on modifications since buying it 15 months ago. Maintenance over that time has been less than $1k (installed myself or with the help of friends). All of this while living a normal lifestyle.
    I graduated last week and make A LOT more money than I did when I bought the car. I'm so glad I did it because I was able to build credit without missing a payment or adding more debt. Now I plan to pay the car off before this time next year and then save to buy a house.
    Words of advice:
    - make sure you have a safety net for non-automotive related expenses
    - make sure you have money for maintenance or a backup plan if something happens
    - don't cheap out on insurance. It's not worth risking everything with only liability. Get full coverage or don't buy it. Find something with affordable full coverage insurance.
    - if you're trying to scrap up all your cash to buy one car, rethink your priorities. You might be better off building credit with a loan so you can spare your capital elsewhere as long as you know you can afford it.
    - if you take out a loan, you better be putting at least 15% down and be locked into a low interest rate.
    - you shouldn't have to change your spending habits or live paycheck to paycheck to "afford" a car.
    My situation worked out perfectly. I got the car I wanted and it was very reliable. I was lucky enough to live with my parents for free. No two situations are ever the same, but basic expense calculations go a long way. It can be done, just know what you're getting into. If you have doubts, it might be a sign. Your gut is always right.
    It sounds like you have this all figured out. Just don't buy some janky old E46 M3 with high mileage. That's asking for trouble at your age. Get something that won't be a project and that's been decently cared for. Cars are never a good investment.
    /rant
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    suspenceful got a reaction from wasnt m3 in Buying cars in yo 20's   
    Here is some real life info.
    I bought my 135i when I was 21 (now 23). Was making $12/hr part-time while going to school full-time. Daily drove a shitty 1996 328is with 230k and a boat load of stupid issues. Also had a turbo Miata as a weekend/fun car of 3 years. Both were paid for. I was paying $375 for rent, $100 for gas/food/other, and $50 to insure both cars with liability. Rough expenses of $550/mo if nothing came up. My parents paid my cell phone bill and bought me food or gave me a little money if needed every once in a while. They knew I appreciated it.
    I was sick of driving my crappy E36 and had an idea. My renting lease was almost up and I could move home (free) after living on campus for 3 years. I could either continue paying rent or buy a nicer/more reliable car and commute. As you can see, I chose to sell both of my cars and trade my rent expense for a car loan expense. Obviously this was after a lot of thinking and research.
    I found a fully loaded 6-speed 2008 135i that perfectly fit my requirements. It had 82k miles and I knew it might need maintenance (somewhat expensive). I wanted to build credit so I decided to go for it. Put $5k down on a $18k loan at 2.85% interest. Monthy payment of $232 and pay $70/mo for full coverage insurance. The car is lumped into my parents auto insurance plan wih 3 other vehicles through Allstate. I have a clean driving record and so do they.
    Fast forward to now, I owe $7k on the car. The only other debt I have is school loans. I have 1 credit card that I've paid in full every month. I spent about $4k on modifications since buying it 15 months ago. Maintenance over that time has been less than $1k (installed myself or with the help of friends). All of this while living a normal lifestyle.
    I graduated last week and make A LOT more money than I did when I bought the car. I'm so glad I did it because I was able to build credit without missing a payment or adding more debt. Now I plan to pay the car off before this time next year and then save to buy a house.
    Words of advice:
    - make sure you have a safety net for non-automotive related expenses
    - make sure you have money for maintenance or a backup plan if something happens
    - don't cheap out on insurance. It's not worth risking everything with only liability. Get full coverage or don't buy it. Find something with affordable full coverage insurance.
    - if you're trying to scrap up all your cash to buy one car, rethink your priorities. You might be better off building credit with a loan so you can spare your capital elsewhere as long as you know you can afford it.
    - if you take out a loan, you better be putting at least 15% down and be locked into a low interest rate.
    - you shouldn't have to change your spending habits or live paycheck to paycheck to "afford" a car.
    My situation worked out perfectly. I got the car I wanted and it was very reliable. I was lucky enough to live with my parents for free. No two situations are ever the same, but basic expense calculations go a long way. It can be done, just know what you're getting into. If you have doubts, it might be a sign. Your gut is always right.
    It sounds like you have this all figured out. Just don't buy some janky old E46 M3 with high mileage. That's asking for trouble at your age. Get something that won't be a project and that's been decently cared for. Cars are never a good investment.
    /rant
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    suspenceful got a reaction from i_love_cars in 135i Spec clutch / MFactory SMFW install   
    Glad to see it's back on the ground and you're going through the gears. Interesting to see my build thread to be of use! The chatter is 'meh', but I have the same mentality about it.
    Hope to see this car in person sometime. Love the color.
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    suspenceful reacted to GunMetalGrey in Build Thread?   
    Here is my 4th gear log

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    suspenceful got a reaction from Jdesign in Build Thread?   
    Ben's potato camera sucks. The bay looks beautiful.
     

    Ben's E30 Paint by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
     

    Ben's E30 Paint by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
     

    Ben's E30 Paint by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
     

    Paint Booth by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
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    suspenceful reacted to HipMF in Musings from the shop   
    Nice!
     
    I've been in a bit of a lull lately. Took me a few tries to get the center support bearing mounts for the e30 driveshaft done right. I finally got my pistons and dropped them off at the machine shop. Hopefully I'll have the block back by next weekend. It's been a long time since I made any visible progress, so I decided to put the front suspension back together and put the car back on the ground.
     

     
    I wheeled it outside and rinsed a couple months worth of accumulated dust off of it and now I'm totally stoked about getting it back on the road again. Spent a few hours today scrubbing down the engine bay. Will probably put some paint on it this week.
     
    This is what I like to see. A small forest of unused jackstands!
     

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    suspenceful got a reaction from DrLeadFoot in Build Thread?   
    Ben's potato camera sucks. The bay looks beautiful.
     

    Ben's E30 Paint by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
     

    Ben's E30 Paint by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
     

    Ben's E30 Paint by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
     

    Paint Booth by Jake Spence Photography, on Flickr
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    suspenceful got a reaction from mtecnic in F8X M3/4 Owners Registry   
    This.
     
    Please post pictures upon arrival.
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    suspenceful reacted to HipMF in Looking for job...   
    Wow, thanks Jake. I'm not very good at selling myself to prospective employers, so I'll take the confidence boosters when I can get them.  
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    suspenceful reacted to Earl in Micheal1972 data logging   
    Sorry Michael but: 
     

     
     
    None of the "rude" comments were meant to be literal. You can't be serious or take anyone serious on this Forum=) 
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    suspenceful got a reaction from HipMF in Micheal1972 data logging   
    TDLR; stop taking the internet so seriously.
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    suspenceful reacted to patsbimmer1 in Micheal1972 data logging   
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    suspenceful reacted to patsbimmer1 in Jake's Epic BMW 135i Build Thread! (5+ Years of Ownership)   
    Looks good!  This is similar to something I am working on for my car right now.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from B C in Build Thread?   
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    suspenceful got a reaction from DrLeadFoot in Build Thread?   
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    suspenceful got a reaction from GunMetalGrey in Musings from the shop   
    Quoting these two pictures to carry the epicness on to page 4...
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    suspenceful got a reaction from i_love_cars in So..i miss driving my car...who else stores theres in the winter time?   
    It's a curse... they need attention.
     
    I love driving my 1er in the winter.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from patsbimmer1 in I dont just blast walnuts at cars ya know.. I do repairs too!   
    I've said it before and I'll say it again... Bob is awesome.
    Went there this weekend for a pump gas flash. No more E85 for the winter.
    While I was there, we planned on doing some much needed maintenance to my car. My hood hasn't been able to open for months and my BRAKE light has been on for even longer. I was also due for an oil change. I ordered all the parts we needed for everything and we got to it.
    He showed me how to replace my brake pad sensors and we finally got rid of that damn light.After replacing hood cables... it turned out to the be the lever itself causing an issue. Since Bob is storing his car for the winter, he gave me his lever so I could pop my hood this winter. I ordered a new one and will give it to him when it arrives. With his recommendation of Motul oil, the car purrs like a kitten after I changed the oil.
    I'll be back for more stuff in the future! Honest guy with great prices... just wants to help the community.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from Rowleym in BMW shop now OPEN! OMRO WI   
    Sweet!
     
    How much to do a 2008 135i clutch? Lol, it's cold now.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from WiscoE90 in WeakE90   
    ^ He does good stuff. I spy 1-series in the background.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from WiscoE90 in Dubs in the Valley   
    It's a Sigma 10-20mm wide angle lens. Shooting in manual mode on my Canon T2i.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from YoungCR in Dubs in the Valley   
    I don't care about watermarks for these. Feel free to say something like, "from Jake at www.jakespence.com" if you want.
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    suspenceful got a reaction from WiscoE90 in Dubs in the Valley   
    Thanks guys!
    Yeah, I wasn't by my car very much. My girlfriend was chillin' inside of it for a while though. She said people asked her questions but she didn't know all the answers, lol.
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