Got the wiring done, everything worked exactly like the information I found online from other people doing the e34 5 speed swap, which was an added bonus.  the 12 pin harness plug that they all spoke about was missing in my shifter area, but after pulling the entire shift console, I found it buried underneath (pain in the ass, but worth it) all the console stuff pulled (i miss my e30, in which this would have have taken 2 minutes) to trick the check control that the trans computer is there,